No one forced her to have sex. (putting rape incidents to the side, for now)
No one forces people to drink and drive. And even if nothing happens or a person can prove they can legitimately operate a vehicle beyond the legal limit, they are forced to undergo a long, painful, expensive legal process that leaves a giant black scar on their future. Because of all the shit that could have happened. An abortion is about the shit that DID happen. Think about that.
There is no guarantee to a good life. They have the right to pursue happiness. They don't have the right to kill anything that just happens to be a roadblock to their happiness. Like their boss, their ex, that person that is just better at the same job... However, we generally agree that everyone needs a fair chance to prove themselves worthy and deserving of a good life.
I'm one of those people that don't mind the removing of some cells... up to a certain point. Cuz after a while, a fetus is just an unborn baby. One doesn't just kill babies. After a certain point, the difference is only a matter of semantics.
There is that gray area. Like if you're building a tower from the ground up. At what point does the construction cease to be 'just a building' and become a tower? Is a 10 story tower any less of a tower than a 50 floor one? Is the 50 floor building less a tower than a 20 floor building just because it is supposed to be 70 floors upon completion?
Good or bad pivots upon a point of view, Erick. So 'best event of one's life' or 'punishment for sex' is totally dependent on the person's mindset. Someone with the latter opinion really shouldn't be risking sex. They can. No one is stopping them. Too bad their gamble didn't pay off. If only I could get my money back if I don't win the lotto or get my car insurance premiums refunded. At least, if I declare bankruptcy, someone doesn't die over it.
You're not your own person till you have your own job and pay your own bills and pay for the consequences of your own decisions. You are just a leech till you move away from home and support yourself completely. Without your mother and socialist programs like orphanages and foster homes, you wouldn't be able to survive on your own until you are strong enough to make a living wage. So why can't a woman throw her 5 yo off a bridge and be done with it when she gets tired of being responsible?