" can anyone please explain to me why people dont keep their dogs on a leash when they go for a walk with them "
Because even if they bark and yap, they're just a little dog and can't cause much problem, even if they wanted to. They're generally well behaved and the owners always have a leash on hand for the off chance that they start to behave unreasonably, like trying to go where you don't want them to go (such as in the street). Also, they're often well behaved or trained enough to listen to their owner's commands. At least is it so with my dog. I could make a case for bigger dogs, but that would take much more time and typing than this already is.
I walked my dog without a leash one time, when I was able to come back home and to my neighborhood after 5 years of college and 5 years of active duty army service. He never left my sight and even when he didn't want to, he followed me home without that leash. He's very attached to his family, you see. Some asshat told me (with a practiced sales pitch) that the neighborhood association frowned upon a dog without a leash because, before, two people who had their dogs off their leash encountered each other and the larger dog attacked the much smaller dog. "It's better if they were all on leashes" is the nice version of what he said, so that the neighborhood would have less trouble. They didn't like the press, you see, even if my family who had continued to live there in my absence had never heard such a thing. He didn't say it this way in quite so many words and yet in so many other words that I've left out but... he disrespected the neighborhood I called home for the entirety of my life and the neighborhood park (the way it was created and maintained) I'd known all my life, the neighborhood pond, with words he thought would calm and placate me. With his telling of the way his 'amazing' ability to get things done after he moved here suddenly made things better... when I knew there was barely any change. But the main thing is he he also disrespected the idea that I knew my dog and what he was and wasn't capable of, that owners were to be stripped of their own judgement and responsibility for some superficial veneer of safety.
I'm not the average person. My dog isn't the same as whatever garbage dog he thinks he does or doesn't know. It's part of his agenda to sell his house at a higher price when he leaves, by showing a more controlled, genteel neighborhood without google-able incidents. He pretty much told me so himself in spiel, hoping to gain my support. He told me he was also former military and wouldn't I also like to sell our house and get out of here at a good price?
I hated his guts instantly. He has the same oily, bullshit personality as the guy who stole $900 worth of gear from a military locker.
I would also rather have my arm broken and torn up than see harm come to our dog or any other dog. Even if attacked, I know how to prevent either. I hate it when police shoot dogs. I know who the real bitches are in those cases...
If any dog tried to attack mine, I would break that dog with my bare hands... And I would never file a suit against the owner. I understand my dog and take full responsibility for his actions. And I take responsibility for my own actions and decisions. No piece of shit who lacks the appreciation for the care and understanding of a good dog is gonna tell me that I can't trust my dog and require him to be on a leash if I don't want to him to be on one. I also understand how other dogs react and behave. This isn't my first dog. In my time, between my direct family and cousins who live the neighborhood over, we've owned a Dalmatian, a doberman pincer, a husky mix, and several indiscernible mutt mixes. I also have hands on experience with several 'oh so dangerous' pitbulls owned by others who had never met me before. I have also encountered several 'stray' dogs (that was how our cousins got their husky mix). Dogs are not new to me. Animal behavior is not new to me. If zoology had been a major offered at UNM, that would be what my degree would have been. Instead, I had to settle for general biology.
If any other dog tries to attack him or he tries to attack other dogs, or if ANY dog tries to attack any person I will interfere personally. Because I know dogs. I know how they play. I know how they fight. I know how they would attack and kill. Because I know my dog, because I was there when my family adopted him (AGAINST MY WISHES, MIND YOU) and when he was introduced to other dogs and cats he did not know over the years and after all the years we've had him, I know what he is like and what he will do. Remember, I am/was a soldier. I have every intent and ability to protect others from attacks, both foreign and domestic. I fear no dog attack. Ever.
He chases cats and tries to befriend them, because his original owner had cats and were family to him (she was moving and she couldn't take him with her). The cats never trust him and he has never tried to hurt any of them, or even barked at them. There is a neighborhood cat who likes to stay at my aunt's house and even plays with- and takes care of- her chihuahuas. Because he's a bigger dog, she doesn't trust him, but he has never approached her any closer than she would allow.
I've already walked him through our neighborhood for years. Without a leash. This asshat is some new neighbor with his own agenda. He can go fuck himself.
My agenda is the happiness and well-being of my family's dog. Nothing more, nothing less. I also have the physical and monetary capability to make good on my promises and intent, and I have no intention of ever giving up my own freedom of choice and responsibility to treat my pet with the understanding and respect he deserves to ignorant, unwarranted fear.
btw, this is the breed of dog my family decided to adopt because my brother really, really wanted a pet, but was highly allergic to most pets at the time. They chose him because they don't shed hair or dander like other dogs and are pretty much hypo allergenic.
Tell me if you think this breed looks powerful and dangerous. Tell me if you think a dog like him needs a leash.
He is a Bichon Frise
If I don't walk my dog with a leash, it's because I have every reason to trust him, and the ability to counteract any human or animal I see who I don't trust.
You asked.
I answered.
Angrily.
There has never been a dog on or off a leash I have ever been afraid of. And there never will be. Even if I mistrust a dog, I am prepared, not afraid.
Dogs are more than pets. They are family. Anyone without compassion for a pet has no soul and shouldn't be trusted.
I look down on anybody and everybody who has no compassion for- or understanding of- other animals.
except for cows. they are both vapid and delicious