Well I hate to break up the circle here, but there are several members who don't really agree with Winter's assessment. And @ dragonz and others, if there wasn't some overstepping of lines, this topic would not exist.
I really hate these types of topics... For some things, an apology is necessary. In this case, don't apologize. Just pull up your bootstraps and do things... I won't say 'the right way' because that's just wrong on more than one level. Do things... differently.