What amuses me are the particular people are who are flipping out and who aren't. The ones who I think were closer friends and those who weren't. And just others and their own... distinctive personalities and their places within the Reborn community. Quite telling, to be honest. Reflect on that.
Personally, this was a surprise/unexpected, but not a shocker.
To be honest, this development hardly affects me or the way I view Hunter. I'm more concerned about how it may be affecting some of the others around here. I'm still waiting for some key people's opinions on the matter. (And Ame herself posts as I'm typing, so that's the primary one down)
Anyways, let's get some basics out of the way:
This breach of trust is bad. But not that bad. I too am of the opinion that the revelation of gender does not suddenly change all the past actions as a moderator into all bad decisions, when they clearly weren't. One doesn't stay a moderator long if that sort of thing happens. It doesn't invalidate any warnings to someone for someone acting like a putz. I'm not a moderator anymore, but I do want the mods to hear my voice on the matter.
However, I would like to know the situation between you and the girl whose photo you used. Something tells me she isn't a stranger to you. As I think about it, I doubt she has actually been negatively affected by this (unless creepy stalker things). You should feel bad for choosing to put her and her image at that sort of risk, and you need to apologize if anything actually happened as a result. Otherwise, I think it would be respectful to the privacy of the actual girl in the picture if all of us simply forgot about it, like just another pretty face from a commercial. How you resolve this issue would tell me something about the sincerity of your repentance.
I also would like to know why you chose to represent your gender falsely. The vast majority of the times I've seen someone do that, it was to get preferential treatment or just to troll. And I despise that. I suspect someone(or two)-else here around of that, but I don't quite think the preferential treatment path fits the situation here.
I won't claim to tell the whole truth around here, but what I say about myself is the truth, even if I keep some things private. This is the internet, as others have pointed out. Plus, nondisclosure agreements with the army, etc. I learned from early wrongdoings as a kid that honesty and integrity are crucial to not only being a good person and staying out of trouble, but becoming a BETTER person. Owning up to mistakes is when we learn the true extent of the mistakes we make and receive criticism on how to prevent making the same mistake again.
Although I doubt you would misrepresent yourself the same way again... but... have a relevant vid.
"... you gotta be a straight shooter. Do ya got it?"