I have an answer for you, but I'd get a warning point from the mods for saying it.
I'mma ignore the rest of your silly ass post to comment on this. Shit ain't as simple as "well, if we stop caring about race, racism will go away". We don't get the luxury of just "forgetting", we don't get to just ignore race. We wake up every day to see another one of us slaughtered, we have to hear all sorts of inane racist bullshit on the daily, we can't ignore race because white society makes a point of reminding us about it. Y'all get tired of having racial discussions, we get tired of having to live this shit.