Wolfox
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Single Status Update
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So, I did some thinking. And the conculsion I came to is that there is one thing that I absolutely can not stand: False Hope. Like, if you're gonna let someone down with one thing or another, why first build up the hope that you might not let them down? It only increases the hit that the letting down in the first place!
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Personally, I never say "Sure, I'll help" or anything definite when someone asks for my help or relies on me for something. I always say something like "I'll do my best, but can't promise it will work perfectly" or something similar. Sometimes people are extremely optimistic about their capabilities and can't even consider of the possibility of letting someone down/hurting him/her/xem. Unfortunately, there are also people that do that on purpose just because, I guess, making someone hurt feels pleasant to them.
But not everyone does that...
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By the way, the "maybe/I'll call you/I'll get in touch soon" when it comes to romantic relationship is 99.999% a rejection, so don't sweat it. I got one of these the other week! It's not putting chains around your neck to keep waiting for them. So,, getting your hopes down only depends on how you interpret the (pretty obvious) message!
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@Jess And when the 'Maybe' isn't a rejection it's pretty much said by someone whose over-the-top cheesy
