Wolfox

if there's one thing I hate more than anything, it's the feeling of uselessness. let me explain, a good friend of mine is in a really bad place (it's the one of the xmas break up after about 3 years of being with him). I still had the guys number and she asked if I could relay a message to him. usually I wouldn't do that, but I felt like I needed to do something to help even though I thought it was a bad idea. I relayed the messages, he asked for her number so they could talk it out, I asked her for permission to give it, and so on and so forth. it went well for about 4 days, untill he broke contact again. see this friends seem to think talking to her again is a bad idea, and the friends of my friend think the same way. She, however, does not. so pretty much, I caused a masive mess trying to help and now I can't help her to try and get through it. I hate this feeling so much. no matter what I'll do, I'll ruin this situation more, but I can't just leave her alone because she needs someone by her side...

is this what adulthood is? this sucks