Well, I know this won't be much, but I hope you can just overcome all of these obstacles: our lives are full of those (in different amounts), and I have to say I'm in a better situation than you (but I sometimes still wish I wasn't Italian, not only there's the economical crisis, but our politicians seem to just raise taxes even more because they want three times the salary of a politician in Germany anyway.)
It always seems that after overcoming an obstacle like this you are weaker and you cannot do the same with the next roadblock... But, as you said, you can't avoid these things forever.
I have a lot of hopes for my future. I didn't do a professional school (here in Italy, that's a school that immediately gives you opportunities for a job, even after three years, so when you are 16). My parents are not in a bad situation and they have a job, but I seem to think that this situation could have been better. That's why I planned to go to the university, and then do some important jobs. This is going to be difficult, but do I want to have just a normal job or remain unemployed for decades after school? That's what happens to a lot of people here in Italy, especially young ones.
I just hope that everything will be alright and that you can still pursue your ambitions