TLDR: just read it.
allow me to present my argument, if you will~ sit back, and enjoy!
well, if you ignore the bad and toxic parts of those domains, you see a well developed, well organized, and popular website that thousands of people use everyday!
see the problem is not the website/domain itself, its the people using it.
generally, well in the eyes of someone who doesn't not know these places, this site is amazing, fun, inspiring, and generally goes along with the terms i said above, but noo, there has to be that one idiot, that one asshole who just ruins it for everyone.
see the problem?
well, you may ask: "aren't there rules on not to do these things?" well, yes there is! But the thing is, rules are not enforced sadly.
maybe, one day, there will be a world without assholes... one day...
and as my history teacher once said,
"the problem with x organization isn't the organization its the 0.00000001 percent of it, that ruins the organization as a whole"
just my two cents in on the matter~