The amount of effort and mental power you have put into the code is truly astounding and as a community we are deeply greatful for it. The fact that you also are assisting other games, are pushing for others to use the tools and also calling for a community solely for essentials sole improvement is deserving of even higher praise.
For someone to call u out is either seeking attention or just have their own problems that they are throwing at you. I just want to say that there will be always people like this, one bad person for every 10 good people that has the potential to bring everything down. Its hard but you really just got to ignore them if they have nothing helpful to say and are just trying to scream sounds (and not words) at you. You also need to give them the middle finger which is represented by all the work you have been able to do and how far you have come with the program. ofc this is all just preaching and easier said than done. but do know i understand this annoyance.
I tried dabbling in coding a few times but never made much progress. the fact that you pushed and went so far is amazing. i know you hate the fact of going through the comments for a phD but i think your work is something you should try and put on your CV or something and have the evidence to back it up.
I always try to read and check up on these development blogs and while i havent in a bit (due to my current situation) do know that myself and many more are supporting you (and we also want you to take care of urself and sleep more) so u can just ignore that one annoying boi.