Should i just let it go?

[Anime]

So, i'm going to join the Emotional train and tell you about someone i used to know: xey used to be a good friend, after school i lost contact of xem but i still see xem sometimes, i didn't realize that i didn't talk to xem for almost 2 years (?) not sure, and now that i see xem almost daily, i feel Shy and change my direction so xey don't see me, i'm afraid xey'd turn me down, should i just Let it go, i can't hold it back anymore~

[Zarc]

then one solution : don't be shy  , i know that feeling i'm a shy guy too , but sometime we need to surpass it 

[Wolfox]

if you had a strong friendship I'm quite sure you can build it back up. I know it's easier said then done seeing as I'm as shy as they get, but there's one thing about friendship:

A true friend is hard to obtai, but inpossible to lose

[Felicity]

If you put in effort to avoid them, you can put in effort to approach them. You just have to decide if you really want to.

[seki108]

I would say at least talk to them and see where you stand.  Then, go for reconnecting, if they also want to.

[mde2001]

While it is possible it may not work out for you, there's no point in giving up hope straight away. Actively try to spend time with them again, and if it seems like it genuinely isn't going to work, then you can just acknowledge that you've grown apart. However there is a good chance you'll remember why you used to be friends. 

[DemICE]

Just approach him since you want it, and try to revive the friendship.  If he gives you the cold shoulder,  its his shame, not yours.  You tried. He didn't.

 

And generally this is counts for every case of "not talking to somebody for x time" . This means that they have also not talked to you for that same amount of time.  So there is nothing to be reluctant about.

[Ojama Yellow]

it may work out, it may not work out.

 

take the chances you have, or you will end up regretting it later, id say.

[Daniel Blackworth]

You should take a chance in taking with that friend of yours. It isn't always that you'd get to see your friend, so you might as well talk before it's too late to have an opportunity to talk with him/her. If they don't treat you as a friend anymore or if your relationship has grown just so far apart, then maybe it would be time to let go, but since you don't know yet, don't give up, instead hope that there is still something by taking the chance.

[LykosHand]

I'm also a shy person, but I suggest you try to talk to him, we all make mistakes in our lives, but there's always a way to fix it. See what he says, try to revive your friendship with him; If he doesn't want to be your friend again, then he wasn't really a true friend and don't worry the fault is his because he's losing once again a very gentle person.

[Anime]

6 hours ago, Zarc said:

then one solution : don't be shy  , i know that feeling i'm a shy guy too , but sometime we need to surpass it 

I see, thanks i'll try to take courage and go for it then

6 hours ago, Wolfox Glace said:

if you had a strong friendship I'm quite sure you can build it back up. I know it's easier said then done seeing as I'm as shy as they get, but there's one thing about friendship:

A true friend is hard to obtai, but inpossible to lose

we were kinda close when we studies at primary school, but then we only met every week/month

6 hours ago, President Felix said:

If you put in effort to avoid them, you can put in effort to approach them. You just have to decide if you really want to.

i want to be friends with xem, i will try to talk to xem ^^

6 hours ago, seki108 said:

I would say at least talk to them and see where you stand.  Then, go for reconnecting, if they also want to.

i understand, okay then i'll see to it asap

3 hours ago, mde2001 said:

While it is possible it may not work out for you, there's no point in giving up hope straight away. Actively try to spend time with them again, and if it seems like it genuinely isn't going to work, then you can just acknowledge that you've grown apart. However there is a good chance you'll remember why you used to be friends. 

@mde2001 thanks a lot, i'll talk to xem and hope for the best results, i'll remember your words

2 hours ago, DemICE said:

Just approach him since you want it, and try to revive the friendship.  If he gives you the cold shoulder,  its his shame, not yours.  You tried. He didn't.

 

And generally this is counts for every case of "not talking to somebody for x time" . This means that they have also not talked to you for that same amount of time.  So there is nothing to be reluctant about.

I see your point, thanks a lot, i'll talk to xem and i have nothing to  loose

2 hours ago, Maximillion Pegasus said:

it may work out, it may not work out.

 

take the chances you have, or you will end up regretting it later, id say.

THanks Bibs  i'll do it, did you like the Mink on your profile?

2 hours ago, Monsieur Divergent said:

You should take a chance in taking with that friend of yours. It isn't always that you'd get to see your friend, so you might as well talk before it's too late to have an opportunity to talk with him/her. If they don't treat you as a friend anymore or if your relationship has grown just so far apart, then maybe it would be time to let go, but since you don't know yet, don't give up, instead hope that there is still something by taking the chance.

Ookay, it wont be easy but you're right if i dont try i'll regret it

36 minutes ago, Hellyeah98 said:

I'm also a shy person, but I suggest you try to talk to him, we all make mistakes in our lives, but there's always a way to fix it. See what he says, try to revive your friendship with him; If he doesn't want to be your friend again, then he wasn't really a true friend and don't worry the fault is his because he's losing once again a very gentle person.

thanks for your words^^ i'll try my best

[LykosHand]

@Another Retired Shipper Perfect, you're welcome  

[Zarc]

If you need some advice , i'm always here

[Daniel Blackworth]

Go, big brother! I know you can do it!

[Anime]

11 hours ago, Zarc said:

If you need some advice , i'm always here

Merci , thanks a lot 

4 hours ago, Monsieur Divergent said:

Go, big brother! I know you can do it!

thanks little brother (i'm older and yet you know a lot more series/stories.. even about politics, shame on me), it wont be long now, i see xem in almost the same place always at the same time

Edited May 2, 2017 by Another Retired Shipper

[Daniel Blackworth]

8 hours ago, Another Retired Shipper said:

thanks little brother (i'm older and yet you know a lot more series/stories.. even about politics, shame on me), it wont be long now, i see xem in almost the same place always at the same time

I did spend my previous years reading books (although I mostly prefer fiction), reading manga (I started this 2 years ago), and playing some video games, and for that, I probably kinda sacrificed interaction, so I guess it's even.

[Anime]

Just now, Monsieur Divergent said:

I did spend my previous years reading books (although I mostly prefer fiction), reading manga (I started this 2 years ago), and playing some video games, and for that, I probably kinda sacrificed interaction, so I guess it's even.

Lol, where did i put my glasses (i'm a nerd hurhurhur) there they are, now i can see the Pc screen properly, you probably have a lot of friends, you dont need social interaction XD

[Daniel Blackworth]

4 minutes ago, Another Retired Shipper said:

Lol, where did i put my glasses (i'm a nerd hurhurhur) there they are, now i can see the Pc screen properly, you probably have a lot of friends, you dont need social interaction XD

I have a loose way of considering friends, so I technically have a lot of friends. The majority of my friends are ones that I'm not too close with, although I have around 10+ friends whom I can call close friends. 

[Anime]

3 hours ago, Monsieur Divergent said:

I have a loose way of considering friends, so I technically have a lot of friends. The majority of my friends are ones that I'm not too close with, although I have around 10+ friends whom I can call close friends. 

Back to the topic we go xD i asked a girl in my class that i know is trustworthy to ask xem ( he's a boy and no i don't have a crush, okay maybe a little)

and we'll meet tomorrow at around 10 Am, he agreed to meet me so thats a good start

[Daniel Blackworth]

56 minutes ago, Another Retired Shipper said:

Back to the topic we go xD i asked a girl in my class that i know is trustworthy to ask xem ( he's a boy and no i don't have a crush, okay maybe a little)

and we'll meet tomorrow at around 10 Am, he agreed to meet me so thats a good start

Good luck with it! Btw, if he's a boy, why use xem? 

[LykosHand]

6 hours ago, Another Retired Shipper said:

Back to the topic we go xD i asked a girl in my class that i know is trustworthy to ask xem ( he's a boy and no i don't have a crush, okay maybe a little)

and we'll meet tomorrow at around 10 Am, he agreed to meet me so thats a good start

Perfect, i hope you're back to be friends and good luck . I agree with divergent, why xem?

Edited May 3, 2017 by Hellyeah98

[Anime]

9 hours ago, Hellyeah98 said:

Perfect, i hope you're back to be friends and good luck . I agree with divergent, why xem?

at first i didn't want to reveal xeir his gender but then i thought, wynaut

 

Well, it didn't turn out too good, but not too bad, at least he wants to 'think' for a day or two

[Hycrox]

Well I'm too late to give any advice ECKS DEE

 

Well, you tried, and I'm sure he at least acknowledged that. So you've got no regrets there fren. I bet everything's gonna work out nicely ^^

 

So, good luck, have fun, and ummmmmm... DO WHAT YOU WANT 'CAUSE A PIRATE IS FREE, AND YOU ARE A PIRATE! we're all pirates in our hearts

[LykosHand]

2 hours ago, Another Retired Shipper said:

at first i didn't want to reveal xeir his gender but then i thought, wynaut

 

Well, it didn't turn out too good, but not too bad, at least he wants to 'think' for a day or two

Ok

 

I understand he has to think, well i hope he will take the right decision.

[Anime]

3 hours ago, Hellyeah98 said:

Ok

 

I understand he has to think, well i hope he will take the right decision.

i hope so too