sdddf4 Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 Ok so I have this friend that I talk to and I would say that we're pretty good friends. We get along pretty well and have been together for a good few years but for some reason when we're around other people they don't seem really interested in me when I try to talk to them and I usually carry the conversation until I give up. I even went out for my birthday with them yesterday and we had a pretty good time but today they seemed a bit off. I don't see this happen when they interact with my other friends as well. I'm just so confused and a bit annoyed . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 Hmm how long have you known this friend? From personal experience, it takes me a while to get attached to people, so I might interact with them one day and not notice them until they talk to me the next day (note that I never start a conversation until I get used to the person's presence). That's just usually first two weeks in acquaintance. So I'm wondering if that's the case with your friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdddf4 Posted October 1, 2018 Author Share Posted October 1, 2018 14 minutes ago, Candy said: how long have you known this friend? I've known them for about four years as of now. We started to get closer and hang out a lot around two years ago. I started to really notice all this last year too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted October 1, 2018 Share Posted October 1, 2018 Oh wow then there might be a reason that only your friend knows- I'd suggest casually asking them about it. Maybe there was a misunderstanding of sorts so being on the same page should help. I know it might be awkward to talk about that, but I think checking in with them is the only way to know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdddf4 Posted October 1, 2018 Author Share Posted October 1, 2018 12 minutes ago, Candy said: know it might be awkward to talk about that, but I think checking in with them is the only way to know yea you're right. I was already thinking about doing this myself as well but was kinda putting it off because of the awkwardness lol. well thanks @Candy venting or just talking about these kind of stuff is nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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